As adults, we sometimes do not realize the impact that life events can have on children, such as loss of a pet or distant relative, end of the school year, or the ending of a good friendship. Children perceive stress very differently from adults, so it is important to remember it is what the child perceives as stressful not the adult. When children feel stressed they will have difficulty learning. If your child is upset or stressed for whatever reason, try to meet your child's needs for comfort and security. However, to address the underlying reasons for your child's stress, be sure to engage in an approach of active listening so you are responding to your child's source of stress, not your own perception.